How To Deal With Irritating Family Members & Relatives.

Treat them as you would like to be treated. Wrong. Treat them as they deserve to be treated. If they make a mistake or hurt you (intentionally or otherwise) let them know and don’t be afraid to show emotions. This clears out our mind and keeps relationship honest. Faking to like each other in spite of being hurt or wronged does no good.Your friend becomes the CEO and you are stuck with the hourly job. Be happy for them. Wrong. No matter how much you try, you will have the feeling of “why me?” especially if you went to same college or grew up together. Better way to deal is to tell him/her about your feeling and get another job. Yes, not very nice but works.Cousin Joe bought a brand new home and got promoted; you still live with your parents and work at a Pizza delivery place. Accept your Karma. In a way yes, you have to accept your faults but if you are not comfortable being around Cousin Joe who can’t stop raving about himself then find a hiding place during family reunions. If he finds you anyway, say hello and run away.Your friend makes into Ivy League, but you failed high school. Keep in touch. You hate him/her; loathe his/her success but stay in loop so that you can get help in future (when your kids want to go to Ivy League for example). From my personal experience, get help from a friend, rather than a cousin. There is nothing worse then exposing your weakness to your own people.You (painfully single) are the bridesmaid for 10th time, this time it is your best friend’s second wedding. Bless the happy couple. Being single is not a bad as it is made out to be. Just wait until the blushing bride starts turning into a raging wife. You will thank your stars for keeping you single.Your mother loves that successful, beautiful cousin more than you. And she can’t stop comparing you two, even in public. Try digging some dirt on that cousin. If you can’t find any then just stand back pretend to be deaf. But if you get some unflattering stuff on her, use it baby (without letting out your name). Watch the drama unfold as the star turns into the outcast. Missionaccomplished.Let me know if you find any success with these tips.